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How to Get a Good Man. This article was co-authored by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Danielle Blinka, MA, MPA. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health. wikiHow marks an article as reader-approved once it receives enough positive feedback. In this case, several readers have written to tell us that this article was helpful to them, earning it our reader-approved status. This article has been viewed 1,327,877 times. Dating can be a frustrating experience, especially when every guy seems like Mr. Wrong. While you might feel like all the great guys are taken, there are lots of good men out there searching for love. To improve your chances of finding Mr. Right, find opportunities to meet new people. Additionally, work on being your best self by living a fun, fulfilling life. When you meet a guy you like, make healthy dating choices so that your relationship may develop into a love match. [1] X Expert Source. Method 1 of 4: Meeting Men. Join a social club that reflects your interests. [2] X Expert Source. For example, you might join your local chapter of the Sierra Club if you enjoy outdoor activities. Similarly, you could visit a comic book store to find a group that discusses comics or a club that plays board games. Meetup.com and Facebook groups might also help you find a local club. You should be able to find classes on topics like art, cooking, and writing at local nonprofits or stores that sell materials for these activities. Ask your librarian if they have any upcoming classes if you can’t find the information online. Many community colleges offer continuing education classes that aren’t part of a degree program. Advertisement. Work in a local soup kitchen. Collect books for underprivileged children. Bathe and walk dogs at a local animal shelter. Become a docent at a local museum. Volunteer for a local film festival. Attend local events and festivals to meet more guys. Check local news sites, Facebook events, and social media pages for local organizations to find events or festivals in your area. This might include things like art openings, live concerts, parades, and farmers markets. [6] X Expert Source. You can also find events on sites like Meetup.com. When you pass a guy who interests you, say something about the event or the weather to try to start a conversation. You might say, “I’m glad the weather is so nice today,” “Have you seen this band before?” or “Do you know if any of the booths are selling zucchini today?” Tip: This is kind of like fishing. You'll throw a bait line out to a lot of guys, but only a few will bite. If someone isn't interested in talking, just move on to the next person. When you’re talking to a guy you like, find out if he’s single by asking a casual question about his relationship status. You might say, “Did your wife come with you?” or “I’m glad this is on a Friday because I needed a break from dating. Isn’t it so hard?” Join a dating app to easily find single people in your area. Using a dating app allows you to narrow your focus to people who are looking for a relationship. Pick a dating app or website that you feel comfortable using. Then, create a profile that shows off your best attributes. When you find potential matches, get to know them to find out if they might be the right guy for you. [9] X Expert Source. Some dating apps might not be the best place to meet good men. Using lifestyle or faith-based apps may help you find better matches than an app like Tinder. Don’t respond to messages that are rude or aren’t respectful of you. If you like a guy, go ahead and message him first. Warning: Sometimes people lie about their relationship status on dating apps. Before you let someone into your heart, ask them about their marital status and search their name online to check for evidence they might be married. Advertisement. wikiHow Quiz: When Will I Get a Boyfriend? You stare longingly at a couple who walk by, focusing on how they squeeze each other’s hands and smile at one another. Is that something you want? Is having a BF even in your future? Answer these questions about your life and past relationships, and we’ll predict when you’ll get a boyfriend. Who knows? Maybe your Prince Charming is waiting just around the corner! Have you ever been in a relationship? Of course! But I’ve totally moved on. Maybe? I’m not sure if it counted. Yes, quite recently. Not a serious one, and I’m happy to keep it that way. Method 2 of 4: Being Your Best Self. For example, you might wear a fun dinosaur print to show off your quirky side or you may choose a sleek pencil skirt and cardigan if you think of yourself as studious. If you like how you look, you’ll naturally be more confident, which will catch a guy’s attention. Additionally, you’ll have more success in relationships if you meet a guy who likes you for yourself. Be authentic so people get to know the real you. Opening yourself up to others can be really hard because it hurts to feel rejected. However, being yourself is the only way to find a good partner. [12] X Expert Source. For example, you don’t need to act like you’re extroverted if you’re happier being a homebody. Similarly, you don’t need to act meek and quiet if you normally have a big personality. You’re amazing the way you are, so don’t hide. Also, don’t pretend to like things because you think a guy will. For example, you could set a goal to get a degree or get a promotion at work. Similarly, you might set a personal goal to save up for a house, write a book, or get a painting in an art show. When you have free time, spend it doing something fun. For instance, instead of spending Saturday night alone, go bowling with friends or invite people over for a game night. If you have a dating profile, include this information on your profile. You might say, “I plan fun, creative dates, I’m patient, I’m open about what I want, and I’m great at making breakfast.” For instance, you might not like that you have a scar on your thigh and you may feel like you get too clingy sometimes. Knowing that you feel this way can help you make better choices as you get to know a guy. You might tell him about the scar early to see how he reacts, and you could make a conscious effort to be less clingy and apologize when you catch yourself doing it. Advertisement. Method 3 of 4: Finding a Good Match. For instance, play mini golf, go bowling, attend a concert, have a picnic, go rock climbing, or tour a local museum. Prioritize what you need and want in a man. [19] X Expert Source. Integrity Trustworthiness Honesty Loyalty Good communication skills Kindness. Say, “Do you want to check out this show with me on Friday?” or “I’m headed over to Good Beans for a cup of coffee. Wanna join me?” Expect him to do the same for you. If he’s on his phone, let him know it bothers you. Say, “Are you okay with putting our phones away during our date?” If he continues to use his phone, he might not be the right guy for you. Get to know a guy before you dismiss him as a potential partner. [23] X Expert Source. If you meet a guy and just aren’t into him, it’s okay to call it quits. However, don’t give up on a guy that checks a lot of your boxes but doesn’t spark an instant connection. Tip: Just like you can’t rule out a guy right away, true love doesn’t happen overnight.