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I think most of us find it easiest to meet new people when the ice is already broken by the circumstances. And by and large we find it much harder to approach strangers. I've roughly arranged the points accordingly, with the least intimidating ones higher on the list.
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Places To Meet People. Sometimes people have lots of potential friends in their lives and they just need to do more to try to hang out with them and start a relationship. But the opposite is just as often a problem, when they don't have many friendship prospects around. In that case they have to meet some. Below is a long list of ways to meet new people. Once you've met someone, you can take the other steps required to possibly turn them into a friend. Some more general points about being able to meet people. Before I get into the many places to meet people, here are some broader principles: Characteristics of good places to meet people. It's somewhere where the situation breaks the ice for everyone and naturally gives them reasons to talk to each other. It allows you to reliably see the same people several times, so you have a chance to get comfortable with them and gradually get to know them. It's not that you have one five minute chance to make a good impression and then you may never see them again. It allows you to meet people who are similar to you, in terms of your hobbies and values. It's somewhere where there's a core of regulars, but also new people continually entering the mix. In the list below I've roughly arranged the points along these lines, with the easier ones toward the top. You may have to force yourself out of your routine to meet people. Some people are a bit lonely because they've gotten into a daily pattern where they're either at work or school, or they're hanging around at home pursuing solitary hobbies. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but if they want to meet some new friends they may have to shake up that routine. They might need to add some more social hobbies to their repertoire, or push themselves to get out and do things in the evening when they'd normally be chilling out in their apartment. You may have to try out a few ways to meet people before one works for you. I don't have any official stats for this, but in my experience meeting people is one of those 80/20 things. You'll meet most of your new friends easily through a handful of avenues, while other ones won't really work for you at all. You may go to a few events and not really run into anyone you could get to know better. Or you'll find making friends there is technically doable, but logistically difficult and aggrevating. Then you'll join one more club and effortlessly fall into an amazing social circle. Don't get discouraged if your first few attempts don't seem to come to anything. Lots of ways of meeting people aren't perfect. You can handicap yourself by looking for the ideal set of circumstances to meet people under. Sometimes you have to work with the so-so hand you've been dealt. For example, someone may attend swing dancing classes and feel there's not enough opportunity to get to know anyone, since new people are always coming and going, and there aren't a lot of chances to talk. The situation may just not be workable for them, like the point above was getting at. Or they may have success if they stretch a bit, say by inviting potential friends out anyway even if it is more of a low percentage play, or by coming earlier or staying later to create time to chat. You've got to have some tolerance of uncertainty and rejection. If someone is minimally confident and sociable they should eventually be able to meet some new friends, regardless of where they do it. On the other hand, if they're just too shy or insecure or awkward, then none of the methods for meeting people will seem to pan out. If that's the case they should try to work on those other issues as well. Places to meet people. Right before I get to the list, I'll mention that this article covers some ways you can find out about things that are going on in your city in the first place: How To Find Events And Clubs In Your Community. Through your friends, significant other, and other people you already know. If you already have some friends you can make a conscious effort to meet their social circle. You could throw a party or organize an event with the invitation that they bring other people they know. Or you could ask your partner if they've got any friends you might hit it off with. Meeting someone's friends is a higher quality meet" compared to a total stranger. The ice is already broken. You have things in common (your mutual friend, if nothing else). They're probably going to be friendly and make an effort to chat to you. They're somewhat pre-screened for characteristics you like because they already know your friend. You're more likely to meet them more than once and have a chance to get to know them and see if you get along. Also, having a friend with you can make it easier to approach other strangers. Two people approaching a group to talk is a little less intimidating than having one person having to go in all by themselves. This general point can also work on a much smaller scale. Like you could start a conversation with a guy in a pub and two minutes later be introduced to his mates. Ideally you can meet somone new who has a ton of friends, and is always inviting you to group events or throwing them themselves. That's not to say you should discount people with smaller social circles. People who are student-aged in particular often report being able to meet a lot of friends from part-time jobs in call centers, restaurants, or large stores. The other staff are generally in the same age group, and new employees are constantly coming on board. If you work alone from home, you could join a co-working space. I realize it's not realistic for most people, but if it's possible you could consider switching to a job with more social opportunities, or picking up another one on the side. For example, if your current part-time position is doing data entry all by yourself, you could start working the odd shift as a banquet waiter. Volunteering. Like you could put in a few hours a week at a food bank, or agree to help out at a one-off fund raising party. It can be a good way to meet people who have similar values to you. I mean, not just anyone signs up to help a particular organization for free. Classes. There's classes in the sense of being a high school or university student, where of course you'll have a ton of chances to meet people. There's also the option of signing up for a class out of your own interest in cooking or drawing or whatnot. Personally, I think signing up for a class purely to meet people is a bit excessive, but if there's a topic you want to learn about anyway, than why not? You can break the ice with someone with the whole, "Let's exchange contact info in case one of us misses a day" thing. Talking about the course material or instructor also comes naturally. If you get assigned to do group work with people, then the class just did you a favor. If you meet someone you like early in a university course, it's probably better to become their class buddy and sit with them for the rest of the semester rather than seeing what's behind "door number three".
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Article about how to meet a:
I think most of us find it easiest to meet new people when the ice is already broken by the circumstances. And by and large we find it much harder to approach strangers. I've roughly arranged the points accordingly, with the least intimidating ones higher on the list.
>> ENTER THE SITE <<
Places To Meet People. Sometimes people have lots of potential friends in their lives and they just need to do more to try to hang out with them and start a relationship. But the opposite is just as often a problem, when they don't have many friendship prospects around. In that case they have to meet some. Below is a long list of ways to meet new people. Once you've met someone, you can take the other steps required to possibly turn them into a friend. Some more general points about being able to meet people. Before I get into the many places to meet people, here are some broader principles: Characteristics of good places to meet people. It's somewhere where the situation breaks the ice for everyone and naturally gives them reasons to talk to each other. It allows you to reliably see the same people several times, so you have a chance to get comfortable with them and gradually get to know them. It's not that you have one five minute chance to make a good impression and then you may never see them again. It allows you to meet people who are similar to you, in terms of your hobbies and values. It's somewhere where there's a core of regulars, but also new people continually entering the mix. In the list below I've roughly arranged the points along these lines, with the easier ones toward the top. You may have to force yourself out of your routine to meet people. Some people are a bit lonely because they've gotten into a daily pattern where they're either at work or school, or they're hanging around at home pursuing solitary hobbies. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but if they want to meet some new friends they may have to shake up that routine. They might need to add some more social hobbies to their repertoire, or push themselves to get out and do things in the evening when they'd normally be chilling out in their apartment. You may have to try out a few ways to meet people before one works for you. I don't have any official stats for this, but in my experience meeting people is one of those 80/20 things. You'll meet most of your new friends easily through a handful of avenues, while other ones won't really work for you at all. You may go to a few events and not really run into anyone you could get to know better. Or you'll find making friends there is technically doable, but logistically difficult and aggrevating. Then you'll join one more club and effortlessly fall into an amazing social circle. Don't get discouraged if your first few attempts don't seem to come to anything. Lots of ways of meeting people aren't perfect. You can handicap yourself by looking for the ideal set of circumstances to meet people under. Sometimes you have to work with the so-so hand you've been dealt. For example, someone may attend swing dancing classes and feel there's not enough opportunity to get to know anyone, since new people are always coming and going, and there aren't a lot of chances to talk. The situation may just not be workable for them, like the point above was getting at. Or they may have success if they stretch a bit, say by inviting potential friends out anyway even if it is more of a low percentage play, or by coming earlier or staying later to create time to chat. You've got to have some tolerance of uncertainty and rejection. If someone is minimally confident and sociable they should eventually be able to meet some new friends, regardless of where they do it. On the other hand, if they're just too shy or insecure or awkward, then none of the methods for meeting people will seem to pan out. If that's the case they should try to work on those other issues as well. Places to meet people. Right before I get to the list, I'll mention that this article covers some ways you can find out about things that are going on in your city in the first place: How To Find Events And Clubs In Your Community. Through your friends, significant other, and other people you already know. If you already have some friends you can make a conscious effort to meet their social circle. You could throw a party or organize an event with the invitation that they bring other people they know. Or you could ask your partner if they've got any friends you might hit it off with. Meeting someone's friends is a higher quality meet" compared to a total stranger. The ice is already broken. You have things in common (your mutual friend, if nothing else). They're probably going to be friendly and make an effort to chat to you. They're somewhat pre-screened for characteristics you like because they already know your friend. You're more likely to meet them more than once and have a chance to get to know them and see if you get along. Also, having a friend with you can make it easier to approach other strangers. Two people approaching a group to talk is a little less intimidating than having one person having to go in all by themselves. This general point can also work on a much smaller scale. Like you could start a conversation with a guy in a pub and two minutes later be introduced to his mates. Ideally you can meet somone new who has a ton of friends, and is always inviting you to group events or throwing them themselves. That's not to say you should discount people with smaller social circles. People who are student-aged in particular often report being able to meet a lot of friends from part-time jobs in call centers, restaurants, or large stores. The other staff are generally in the same age group, and new employees are constantly coming on board. If you work alone from home, you could join a co-working space. I realize it's not realistic for most people, but if it's possible you could consider switching to a job with more social opportunities, or picking up another one on the side. For example, if your current part-time position is doing data entry all by yourself, you could start working the odd shift as a banquet waiter. Volunteering. Like you could put in a few hours a week at a food bank, or agree to help out at a one-off fund raising party. It can be a good way to meet people who have similar values to you. I mean, not just anyone signs up to help a particular organization for free. Classes. There's classes in the sense of being a high school or university student, where of course you'll have a ton of chances to meet people. There's also the option of signing up for a class out of your own interest in cooking or drawing or whatnot. Personally, I think signing up for a class purely to meet people is a bit excessive, but if there's a topic you want to learn about anyway, than why not? You can break the ice with someone with the whole, "Let's exchange contact info in case one of us misses a day" thing. Talking about the course material or instructor also comes naturally. If you get assigned to do group work with people, then the class just did you a favor. If you meet someone you like early in a university course, it's probably better to become their class buddy and sit with them for the rest of the semester rather than seeing what's behind "door number three".
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